Simplify checking if objects exist code in new issaubles workers

What does this MR do?

It adds set_user and set_issuable methods to NewIssuable and in objects_found? checks if these objects exist

Are there points in the code the reviewer needs to double check?

Why was this MR needed?

!13326 (merged) follow up

Screenshots (if relevant)

Does this MR meet the acceptance criteria?

• Changelog entry added, if necessary
• Documentation created/updated
• API support added
• Tests
  • Added for this feature/bug
  • All builds are passing
• Review
  • Has been reviewed by UX
  • Has been reviewed by Frontend
  • Has been reviewed by Backend
  • Has been reviewed by Database
• Conform by the merge request performance guides
• Conform by the style guides
• Branch has no merge conflicts with master (if it does - rebase it please)
• Squashed related commits together

What are the relevant issue numbers?

Closes #36119 (closed)