stream: fix highWaterMark integer overflow

Fixes integer overflows when supplying values exceeding 2 ^ 31 - 1 for highWaterMark.

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/12553

Checklist

• make -j4 test (UNIX), or vcbuild test (Windows) passes
• tests and/or benchmarks are included
• commit message follows commit guidelines

Affected core subsystem(s)

stream