async_hooks: fix nested hooks mutation

Checklist

• make -j4 test (UNIX), or vcbuild test (Windows) passes
• tests and/or benchmarks are included
• commit message follows commit guidelines

Affected core subsystem(s)

async_hooks

In some cases restoreTmpHooks is called too early, this causes active_hooks_array to change during execution of the init hooks.

This depends on https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/14054