doc: Add notes how addMembership should be managed
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/12572
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documentation is changed or added -
commit message follows commit guidelines
Affected core subsystem(s)
doc, dgram
Do not update/delete: Banner broadcast message test data
Do not update/delete: Notification broadcast message test data
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/12572
doc, dgram