Add remark deps

I was unable to reopen https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/16635 so I am alternatively opening this new PR

Since #16635 was closed we have noticed weird edge cases in multiple code and learns with random artifacts being created in peoples git repositories... this is making it harder for people to submit changes to Node

example of a PR with extra files: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/17306 example of a PR to fix the gitignore issue: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/17224

@refack blocked on the original PR due to filesize, if they (or anyone else) cannot come up with an alternative PR before the TSC meeting on Wednesday I'm going to escalate this to the TSC to reach consensus on. This is causing very real friction for developers and we should prioritize fixing this ASAP