events: deprecate EventEmitter.defaultMaxListeners getter/setter
In preparation for upcoming ESM interop and to remain consistent with other getters/setters being removed
Refs: #18131
Checklist
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make -j4 test
(UNIX), orvcbuild test
(Windows) passes -
tests and/or benchmarks are included -
documentation is changed or added -
commit message follows commit guidelines
Affected core subsystem(s)
events