deps: cherry-pick Swallowed Rejection Hook from V8

Cherry-picks two commits:

• https://github.com/v8/v8/commit/2075910f3d070159bebd80e128dd09fdd87be56e
• https://github.com/v8/v8/commit/907d7bcd18c13a04a14eea6699e54167494bf9f9

Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/promises-debugging/issues/8

Being an API change, they are not eligible for upstream back-merge.

/cc @nodejs/v8-update @MayaLekova @nodejs/promises-debugging

Checklist

• make -j4 test (UNIX), or vcbuild test (Windows) passes
• commit message follows commit guidelines