tools: add clang-tidy rule in src

In short

• make cpp check rules explicit and get checked by CI
• select the rules most collaborators are comfortable with

Todo

Tools to ensure the rules

@refack told me some rules are checked. Basically the rules should check most operating systems because we have platform-specific code such as using macro. And should keep clang-tidy in same version when possible. I have some thought on docker get involved in this. Hopefully I can put my thought in node\build group this weekends.

Google Cpp Guideline

Related to https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24315. clang-tidy can handle some google cpp guideline rules. I don't know should we

• use clang-tidy to ensure google-related rule
• should we add all google- or just some of them. see https://clang.llvm.org/extra/clang-tidy/

Rules need to be select.

The rules now included are already applied or in-review.

How to deal with false positive and make exceptions

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cc @addaleax @bnoordhuis @refack @joyeecheung @jasnell @richardlau @danbev @trott @BridgeAR

Checklist

• make -j4 test (UNIX), or vcbuild test (Windows) passes
• commit message follows commit guidelines