[v10.x backport] TLS1.3 (and dependent PRs)
WIP to backport https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/26951 and any required deps.
Includes:
- #27419:
[v10.x backport]: Update OpenSSL 1.1.1b
- #26327:
tls: support changing credentials dynamically
- #24261:
tls: get the local certificate after tls handshake
- #25153:
tls: fix initRead socket argument name
- #25153:
tls: do not confuse session and session ID
- #25153:
src: use consistent names for JSStream
- #25153:
tls: do not confuse TLSSocket and Socket
- #25153:
tls: remove unused ocsp extension parsing