OpenSSL dlloads node static linked executable

Fix: OpenSSL dlloads itself to prevent unloading, in case it might be dynamically loaded via dload. However when linked statically this will lead to dloading the main executable, which is not valid.

Checklist

• make -j4 test (UNIX), or vcbuild test (Windows) passes (issues with test, see: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/27856)
• commit message follows commit guidelines

See more here: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/21848