[v10.x backport] Update openssl 1.1.1d
Note that this drops the floating patch from https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/28983 because it is included -- or so it appears to me @ofrobots
This is a "backport" of https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29550, though actually it has to be done from scratch, exact commands are documented in the commit messages, as usual.
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make -j4 test
(UNIX), orvcbuild test
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tests and/or benchmarks are included -
documentation is changed or added -
commit message follows commit guidelines