lib: change ERR_INVALID_ARG_VALUE error message
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/34682/#discussion_r475241035
Checklist
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make -j4 test
(UNIX), orvcbuild test
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tests and/or benchmarks are included -
documentation is changed or added ? -
commit message follows commit guidelines
/cc @BridgeAR @jasnell @trott