doc: expand openssl instructions
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/36541
Expand the instructions to cover what is needed when updates are required across all active release lines
Related Issues
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/<issue_number>
Checklist
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make -j4 test
(UNIX), orvcbuild test
(Windows) passes -
documentation is changed or added -
commit message follows commit guidelines