[v18.x] build: bring back dtrace/systemtap support on install

See https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44521#issuecomment-1247259705.

It was accidentally merged into v18.9.0 (it might be a bad conflict resolution or even a cherry-pick mistake).

Shall we land a patch release or we can wait until v18.10 (2022-09-20)?

cc: @nodejs/releasers