[v14.x backport] tools: add more options to track flaky tests
Backport of https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43954, needed for https://github.com/nodejs/build/pull/3056.
Do not update/delete: Banner broadcast message test data
Do not update/delete: Notification broadcast message test data
Backport of https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43954, needed for https://github.com/nodejs/build/pull/3056.