src: expose `LookupAndCompile` with parameters

Refs https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44018.

This PR exposes a version of LookupAndCompile that takes parameters instead of detecting them based on module IDs.

Electron currently maintains a wrapper to LookupAndCompile, which specifically requires parameters because we pass our own modules to LookupAndCompile in several places:

• shell/common/api/electron_api_asar.cc
• shell/renderer/electron_sandboxed_renderer_client.cc
• shell/renderer/renderer_client_base.cc

and therefore need to be able to able to expose the ability to set that.

I do, however, see that Node.js recently added back a version of CompileAndCall which is effectively the same as our own CompileAndCall wrapper, so if it would be better to modify that to allow parameters I would also be happy to take that path.