Fix a few things after the initial improvment to Members::DestroyService

app/controllers/concerns/membership_actions.rb

app/controllers/groups/group_members_controller.rb

app/controllers/projects/project_members_controller.rb

app/services/members/authorized_destroy_service.rb

app/services/members/destroy_service.rb

lib/api/access_requests.rb

spec/controllers/groups/group_members_controller_spec.rb

spec/controllers/projects/project_members_controller_spec.rb

spec/services/members/destroy_service_spec.rb